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Prophet Muhammad and Aisha (part 1)
Prophet Muhammad and Aisha (part 2a)
Prophet Muhammad and Aisha (part 2b)
Sunan Abi Dawud, Hadith: 3898, Sunan Ibn Majah, Hadith: 3324
Aisha says, “My mother wanted me to gain some weight before going [to the home] of Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam). Nothing [benefitted me] until she fed me cucumber and fresh dates which [helped me] gain weight nicely.”
Radd al-Muhtar ala al-Durr al-Mukhtar, vol. 5, p. 283, says
Withstanding penetration means being able to withstand it from a penis or another object in breaking the hymen. This cannot be determined by a minimum age, for example, fat girls can withstand intercourse even if they were very young.
Commentary on Sahih Muslim, volume 3, page 577 regarding the time for a child bride to withstand intercourse.
As for the time a young married girl goes to her husband to do sexual intercourse, it is permissible at any time given there is no harm to the girl and both the husband and the girl’s guardian approve. According to Ahmed Hanbali, if they disagree, then she is forced to join her husband at nine years old.