elena gilbert, i know grief. {6x01}

everyone is literally vidding the heart out of delena (so did i hehe) but this time i tried to focus on elena and her feelings. everyone seems to be hating on her because she didnt grief over bonnie (most common one) and being a whiny biatch and all but guys LOOK HOW MUCH SHES BEEN THROUGH her whole family is dead, her friends (a lot of them) are dead and her lover is dead too. like seriously if elena gilbert grieved over bonnie too she would literally die this is too much for her as you can see i focused o