Chris Voss: FBI Hostage Negotiator | Lex Fridman Podcast #364

Chris Voss is a former FBI hostage and crisis negotiator and author of Never Split the Difference: Negotiating As If Your Life Depended On It. Please support this podcast by checking out our sponsors: - Shopify: to get free trial - Indeed: to get $75 credit - InsideTracker: to get 20% off EPISODE LINKS: Chris’s Instagram: Chris’s Twitter: Chris’s Website: Chris’s Masterclass: Never Split the Difference (book): PODCAST INFO: Podcast website: Apple Podcasts: Spotify: RSS: Full episodes playlist: Clips playlist: OUTLINE: 0:00 - Introduction 0:59 - Negotiation 6:50 - Reason vs Emotion 21:45 - How to listen 30:35 - Negotiation with terrorists 32:43 - Brittney Griner 34:21 - Putin and Zelenskyy 41:41 - Donald Trump 48:52 - When to walk away 53:06 - Israel and Palestine 1:00:45 - Al-Qaeda 1:06:15 - Three voices of negotiation 1:14:40 - Strategic umbrage 1:17:46 - Mirroring 1:20:57 - Labeling 1:28:24 - Exhaustion 1:30:38 - The word “fair“ 1:33:34 - Closing the deal 1:35:32 - Manipulation and lying 1:37:26 - Conversation vs Negotiation 1:48:45 - The 7-38-55 Rule 1:52:45 - Chatbots 2:02:07 - War 2:03:39 - Advice for young people SOCIAL: - Twitter: - LinkedIn: - Facebook: - Instagram: - Medium: @lexfridman - Reddit: - Support on Patreon: