our conception of love is messed up.

Offset your carbon footprint on Wren: The first 100 people who sign up will have 10 extra trees planted in their name! what is love? how should we love? is proper loving possible in our current culture? i try to talk about these questions in the video. however, please don’t take this as an attack on your relationships -- i fail to treat love the way i say we should as well. it’s really difficult to be good at love, and so the best we can do is try :) ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:* what are the best examples of love that you’ve come across? *:･ﾟ✧*:･ﾟ✧ TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 intro 1:45 two main questions 3:07 is love passive or active? 8:39 love as an art 14:48 proper love is counterculture 16:14 hyperreal love 19:16 “if he wanted to, he would“ 24:08 red flags 25:17 outro ★・・・・・★・・・・・★ If you want extra ways to support my channel and get more content, check out my PATREON: socials: ,, instagram: @olisunvia ,, tiktok: @olisunvia (v lame pls don’t judge) ,, vsco: @olisunvia ,, spotify: liv sun ,, pinterest: @olisunvia (i’m super creative with usernames) FOR BUSINESS INQUIRIES: olisunvia@ ★・・・・・★・・・・・★ SOURCES: Asking for a Friend. “Modern concepts of love, sex & pleasure with Dr Sara Nasserzadeh.“ Baker, Kim. Relationship Red Flags Mini Book (2016). Baudrillard, Jean. Simulacra and Simulation (1981). Bell Hooks. All About Love (1999). Fromm, Erich. The Art of Loving (1956). Hannah and Shane’s YouTube Channel: Philosophize This! “Episode 150 ... The Frankfurt School - Erich Fromm on Love.“ Philosophize This! “Episode 124 ... Simulacra and Simulation.“ StyleLikeU. “Laughing At Your Ableist BS: Shane & Hannah Burcaw Hold A Mirror Up To Your Limited Idea of Love.“ Valkyrist. “Jean Baudrillard’s ’Simulacra and Simulation’ (notes/reflections).“ Then & Now. “An Introduction to Baudrillard.“ MUSIC: Chopin: Nocturne Op. 9 No. 2 Chopin: Nocturne Op. 37 No. 1 in G minor (Moravec) Ravel: Pavane pour une Infante defunte Satie: Je Te Veux Jonny Easton: Wings tags: social commentary, internet analysis, video essay, analysis video, consumerism, philosophy, hyppereality, love, lover, loving, capitalism, valentine’s day, valentines, breakup, post break-up glow up, relationship advice, romance, romantic scene, romance movie film tv show, social media, tiktok, couple goals, relationship goals, tiktok couples, love yourself, self love, girlfriend, boyfriend, toxic relationships, ex, dealing with breakup, shanspeare, jordan theresa, cj the x, tiffany ferg, alice cappelle, contrapoints, philosophy tube, madisyn brown This video was sponsored by Wren.